I first started seeing Spirit when I was a child. On various occasions, the Spirit of my great-grandmother appeared in my room; however, when I spoke about these experiences, I was not supported nor acknowledged by my family. I was told they were just nightmares. Because of this experience, I grew to fear the dark and preferred sleeping with the light on. I remember how scared I was as a child and how I slept with my duvet over my head, effectively turning myself away from Spirit. I was too young to fully comprehend what was happening to me. With time I began having more communication with Spirit and have learned that there is nothing to be afraid of.

No, it is up to the Spirit world to decide who is to come forward and give you a message. I believe that this is pre-arranged, even before the actual reading takes place. You can set an intention that you would like to hear from a particular loved one, but there is no guarantee that they will participate. The same applies when you try to instruct Spirit how you want them to communicate with you; perhaps by asking them to give you a specific sign or symbol. Those might appear during the reading. However, it is best to try and stay open as it is up to Spirit to choose how they want to validate that it is them communicating with you in their own unique way, whether by bringing up their personality, specific physical characteristics, or a common memory. Another way they like acknowledging that they are part of your life by bringing up information on what is currently happening in your life.

-Make sure that you prepare a quiet place, turn off your mobile phone and any other electronic devices that might distract you, and ensure that you will not be disturbed or distracted.

-Private readings: ensure that only you are in the room during the reading as I cannot guarantee whose loved ones are going to step forward. I had some readings where the Spirit came forward with a message for another person who was in the room but was not the one who booked the reading.

-Avoid drinking alcohol before the reading

-Keep an open mind. I will bring one of your loved ones in Spirit and receive healing messages from them on your behalf.

I see, hear, feel and sense things. Spirit uses a range of signs and symbols from the ‘dictionary’ created along with Spirit. Those signs and symbols repeat themselves frequently in my readings.

This is an integral part of my soul’s journey. When communicating with the Spirit realm, I feel I am the most truthful to my self. It has always been part of my life and I feel honoured and grateful to reconnect people with their loved ones in Spirit, as well as teaching them how they can communicate with their loved ones in Spirit.

Your loved ones can hear you when you are thinking about them. You can speak with them in your thoughts, aloud, or you might even choose to write them a letter.

I believe that what you focus on, you attract. When connecting with Spirit, I set an intention to communicate with Spirit of the highest truth and compassion, with those who walk in a white light of God. Other energies do not come through to me.

In a psychic reading, I tune into my client’s aura and read their energy. During a mediumship reading, I connect with Spirit and in order to do so, I have to raise my vibration and they must lower theirs. By doing this, we meet in the middle, hence ‘the medium’ who acts as a vessel for communication between your loved one in Spirit- the communicator and you- the client.